Brittany DunlapThe Single Fat Chick-Introduced
October 31st 2006 21:34
When I came across Orble[dot]com, I knew I had a topic. Ok, maybe not the most politically correct topic, but it's who I am and I'm not ashamed. After 10 years on the Internet, I have found 85% of people are not honest about who they are, or what they look like. We all have imperfections we want to keep a secret. I don't consider being fat, (to be politically correct I am horizontally challenged, or as I prefer, carbohydrate tolerant), an imperfection. I am who I am. Do I enjoy being fat? Absolutely not. I doubt anyone does and if they do enjoy lying flat as a board while trying to squeeze into a pair of jeans, only to stand up and realize-that blouse is not going to hide the fat roll, then some serious therapy is needed.
I'm 33 years old. I'm single. I'm fat. The two stereotypes associated with fat people are-we're always jolly and we're lazy. I'm never jolly and I have to be the most hyper fat person ever-so laziness is not an aspect of my life. I have a sense of humor and a quick wit. Through life both attributes have proven successful for me. As a woman of size, (another politically correct term, makes me sound as if I'm some type of Amazon freak), dating has been rough and smooth. Just as it would be if I were a size 2. What I hope to achieve through this blog is to give others insight on what it's like to live as a single fat chick. With humor and intelligence. Although the intelligence part can be debated. From dating to job interviews, I will share my experiences. In return, I want people-men and women, to get involved in discussions. Share your own experiences. Tell me how you feel-whether you're overweight, or a person who automatically assumes the stereotypes are true. One important item I ask in return-respect. This is a chance to understand a group in society who are often times blamed for being fat. So, let's get the ball rolling! Men, women, thin, fat, rich or poor, show me your Hostess Chocolate Cupcakes and let the blogging commence.
I'm 33 years old. I'm single. I'm fat. The two stereotypes associated with fat people are-we're always jolly and we're lazy. I'm never jolly and I have to be the most hyper fat person ever-so laziness is not an aspect of my life. I have a sense of humor and a quick wit. Through life both attributes have proven successful for me. As a woman of size, (another politically correct term, makes me sound as if I'm some type of Amazon freak), dating has been rough and smooth. Just as it would be if I were a size 2. What I hope to achieve through this blog is to give others insight on what it's like to live as a single fat chick. With humor and intelligence. Although the intelligence part can be debated. From dating to job interviews, I will share my experiences. In return, I want people-men and women, to get involved in discussions. Share your own experiences. Tell me how you feel-whether you're overweight, or a person who automatically assumes the stereotypes are true. One important item I ask in return-respect. This is a chance to understand a group in society who are often times blamed for being fat. So, let's get the ball rolling! Men, women, thin, fat, rich or poor, show me your Hostess Chocolate Cupcakes and let the blogging commence.
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Comment by Bulamakanka
The real world. Everyone is who they are. So you are fat. So is most of the western world.
And some pacific islanders.
Oh yeah, and some Russians and Chinese.
Some Japanese as well and Arabs, Jews and...
Oh to hell with it. The skinny people are a minority.
Here in OZ that roll of extra emergency energy reserve is refered to as "muffin tops"
Ya all have a nice day.
Comment by Chantal
Great opening piece!
You sound like a fantastic, courageous, fun and intelligent woman and any guy would be lucky to have you. I shall stay tuned, I can tell it will be an entertaining blog!
Comment by JoshZ
Witty, sharp and very well put together. I look forward to coming back.
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Welcome.
Loved your first post and I'm looking forward to reading more of your honesty and forthright comments.
A.H.
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Comment by Lizard68591
The Blog Formerly Known As Saturday Morning Movie Club
I am what you might call an ex-single fat chick...Lost the weight but haven't gained the boyfriend. I just wanted to say that I think its great that you realize that a person's relationship status is not directly corellated to their size. I was one of those people that thought loosing weight would solve all of their relationship problems, and I was very much mistaken.
Having said that, loosing the weight did improve my health and that's even more important. So while I applaud your level of self acceptance [and also envy it] if you do ever decide that you want to try and get healthy, I would love to share some tips with you.
- Liz
Comment by KylieW
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Great post. Good on you for being honest and open.
I'm looking forward to reading more of your posts.
KylieW
Comment by Joe Blogg
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Don't know you but I like you already.
Here's the rub (& I'll be honest)
I don't think of fat people as jolly or lazy.
I think of them as extremely unhappy & lacking in confidence or self belief.
What I want to know is, as a chunky, do you feel pressure to put out on a first date so as to get a second date?
Comment by Anonymous
when you buy a computor you dont buy it for the box you buy it for whats inside!!!! people are just the same you may like the packaging better on some than other but its whats its inside that matters.
you have given me some real stuff to think about for my play thankyou
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